White Lies
A blog post on how businesses hurt the most
The reason for this post is that I need to organize my blog a bit and my posts are a great reflection of how scrambled I feel managing numerous loan requests in CRE
Now that we got our required GIF 1 inputted - let’s go into the title and topic of WHITE LIES (In Business) - which I have seen repeatedly throughout my career
As much as a ‘white lie’ may be ‘well-intentioned’ … it is still an ‘untruth’ and in perpetuating untruths, you become an entity that lacks integrity. Simply put.
Lack of integrity is a dis-ease on all fronts, your word starts sounding like dirt and your name is similar to a plastic bag in the wind, floating and floating till you’re caught on something that acknowledges your existence.
Sure, you might get used again, being a plastic bag that does no deteriorate in a bio degradable sense, yet you’re still deteriorating your dignity each time you white lie.
Whether the receiver has an awareness of your dishonesty isn’t the issue here - it’s the habit that develops as a result of perpetuating falsehoods. It creates a muscle memory of covering up your faults by creating ‘untruths’ time and time again. What does this do?????
So now that we’re beyond what a white lie is and how the damage creates ripples that are developing into tsunamis that will crash your shore, how do we stop the habit?????
TRANSPARENCY - YES - THE EGO MANIACS BIGGEST MANIA _ BEING REAL
Let’s be real and acknowledge that mental illness is a dis-ease that impacts 20% of men
If 1 in 5 people have mental illnesses - then how many of these 1 in 5 people are aware they have parts of themselves that are deprived of resolution?
When in mental illness - it’s visible to others yet the mirror does not show us unless we reach into it and dissect where the issues are stemming from.. is it emotional or physical? even deeper, is it spiritual?
How am I conditioning my awareness and programming thyself? Am I inputting junk or am I treating this vessel as a temple, a monastery of abundance and wHealth?
Now we’re going off track from White Lies and into de-conditioning 101
7 years is how long it takes to RE-PROGRAM / DE-CONDITION
This is not some overnight thing - sure we can change a lot in 24 hours but are you also thinking 24 years ahead? Don’t get caught up in stress of the unknown. Move into a sense of knowingness with how you feel on all levels… With awareness comes knowing, certainty eliminates doubts - it does not eliminate blunders… I would know lol
Don’t hold your cells guilty - not even in shame or blame - just love your cells infinitely and accept that it is a LONG GAME - move away from shortness
White Lies are the ones we tell ourselves - it’s only when they come out and spill onto other selves that we real eyes our very own sacrifice, thyself publicly held in noose
So the more we can be in alignment - the more we can serve in pure divinity
Accepting yourself as being of high quality state will move the mountains of escape out of the way - we all have our minor errors that we make and we all have our own ‘demons’ to face - the uniqueness is you - you’re here to embody a life of pure love and your expressions of that create ripples of peace for others. To wrap up - don’t be a ‘white liar’ to others, to self, to other selves. Be REAL - validate your unconditional love with others, and see the grace enter your space with each new breath. Not all are deserving of receiving - don’t let this prevent you from showing grace and love. Be miiindful of limiting your interaction with those who knock you off your being.
